Do you wake up in the middle of the night?
It is believed that our sleep patterns are created when we are infants, but it might be difficult for you to go back in time to establish new patterns. Instead, we can influence today’s sleep cycle by actively managing our approach to rest and eventually undesired patterns may begin to change. Sleep preparation is a mindful technique for reducing the frequency of restlessness between the sheets.
Keep in mind that our sleep cycles can be affected by many variables, including but not limited to age, diet, stress levels, lifestyle and general health. You may already know, as we grow older it is very normal to wake up two or three times a night. If we consider this seriously and add stress to the mix or a stimulant (even some medications), naturally our sleep interruption scenario may be more pronounced. Also consider that the nervous system can change over time and metabolize what we put into our bodies differently. For example, although you may have been a coffee drinker for years, with body chemistry changes the effects of caffeine can become delayed, causing us to experience restlessness hours following our cherished cup of java.
Regardless of the cause(s) of sleep interruption, it is important to not worry about how you’ve been sleeping, as the stress of worry doesn’t help. I encourage you to work with your body and mind as a system whose main objective is to feel good. Acknowledging that your body wants to feel good and pointing your attention toward healthy practices that support this objective lets your body and mind system know it is safe and there’s no reason for sleep to be interrupted.
1. At a very low volume, play steady rain, or white noise. Avoid intermittent rain forest sounds, as sound variations can be disturbing.
2. Make sure there are no sharp lights that are visible from your bed.
3. Do not use the iPad, computer, or iPhone at least thirty minutes before sleep.
4. Do not watch the news, action or violent television before sleep and avoid loud or agitating conversation.
5. Have a glass of red wine or a small cup of herbal tea one to two hours before sleep.
6. Take a warm bath or shower.
7. Wear soft clothing, specifically for sleeping and treat yourself to high thread count sheets.
8. To sooth the nervous system before bed even more, place a large folded blanket near a wall and with your rear pressed up close to the base board, put your legs up the wall. Once positioned, take ten long, slow comfortable breaths extending the exhale naturally without force through your nose or mouth. Remain with your legs up the wall for five to ten minutes or until you feel very relaxed. When bringing the legs down lie in fetal position for couple of long breaths and repeat to yourself, “It is time to sleep soundly.” If you are physically challenged and cannot do number eight, simply sit and say a prayer for your family and loved ones or silently acknowledge everything in your life that you are thankful for. Gratitude has a soothing effect.
9. In bed, lights out, eyes closed, say to yourself, “I am safe. I don’t have to be anywhere or do anything. It’s my time to rest.”
10. Draw seven long, slow and comfortable breaths. For each breath visualize a body part and allow that body part to give into gravity a little more and let go. Start with a relaxing breath for your face. One breath for your right leg and one for the left. One breath for your right arm and one for the left. One breath for your torso and spine and one breath for your head.
It is a good idea to place a note pad by your bed and a small glass of water. Many times the sub-conscious mind will wake us up, simply because there is a thought or idea that we need to become conscious of. Write down the thought or idea, take a drink of water and go back to sleep, taking a few breaths to settle again, not forgetting to allow the body to give into gravity. If you awaken and there’s not a thought or idea in your mind, repeat step number ten and enjoy the fact that in the middle of the night you don’t have to be anywhere or do anything. It’s your time to rest.
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John Sahakian C.Ht.